SUGGESTED ACTIVITIES WITH THE BABY
Blow at all parts of the baby's body. Tickle, rub, pat and prod. Roll him or
her around.
Do not always have the baby dressed, but place the child naked onto a
scratchy woollen blanket or crackly paper so that the nerves of the body
experience something quite different. The noise of the paper is an incentive
for to move. Sounds are the baby's reward.
Forget about the baby's comfort now and then. Put him or her too near the
foot-end of the cot, to encourage them to push against it. Place the baby on
their tummy and hold some bright, noisy object in front of the eyes, but above
the head. This encourages a lifting of the head and exercising of the neck
muscles.
Whistle and sing if it makes the baby stretch or arch the back. Use odd
sounds which suddenly lapse into a peaceful silence. Do not be afraid to be
child-like with the baby. It is surprising how "oohs" and
"aahs" provoke wriggles and happy twisting which no serious talk can
ever achieve.
Place bells not only near the hands but also put them on and near the feet.
This makes the baby kick more frequently and more purposefully. If the bells
are placed on the sides, he or she will even learn to use alternate limbs.
Carry the baby around in a baby sling. In this way they get rocked, lowered,
lifted, and turned, without much effort. This stimulates the sense of balance,
and also engenders a sense of being loved and a part of everything the parents
do.
Tease the baby into turning, stretching, or bending movements by holding a
desired object at a slight distance. It may be good for an inactive baby to
learn that effort has its reward.
If the baby does not attempt to crawl, give them the joy of a bath in which
they are laid down on the tummy over a large rolled up towel. This comfortable
bulge should support the chest and abdomen while leaving the limbs to dangle
freely in the water. When splashing in this position, the baby may come very
close to the mechanics of crawling.
It is helpful to do things together with the baby, to get down on the floor
at times. For the baby the task at hand is gigantic. Why make it harder still
by standing over them like a giant? If the legs are still lifeless or weak, and
the knees still unused, sit opposite the baby on the floor, with the soles of
the feet touching their feet, and push against each other. Try making a ramp
with the legs on which the baby can learn to climb.
Last but not least, make the child itch with curiosity. Do something
secretive nearby, or clatter about unseen so that the child will want to
overcome the physical stumbling block and get up.
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